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Home school or not?
Adults who were home-schooled have mixed feelings about how to educate their kids
When a vacation evolved into a three-year adventure across the Atlantic Ocean, the world became Jennifer Carpenter-Peak's classroom.
Circumstance forced Carpenter-Peak's parents to home school her, a fourth-grader at the time, and her sister while they lived and traveled by sailboat. During the trip, their classroom could have been somewhere on the Azores, a group of volcanic islands near Portugal, or in the tiny ship cabin where she and her sister slept. Recess might have meant a retreat to Caribbean island beaches or taking in the view offered up by the Madeira Islands, off the coast of Africa.
But once Carpenter-Peak re-entered public school as a seventh-grader, she soon learned that her experience set her apart from her peers. Like the rest of society, her fellow students did not know much about home schooling.
Though home schooling is becoming more mainstream - the U.S. Department of Education has pegged it as the fastest growing segment of school enrollment - there is a generation of adults like Carpenter-Peak, who were home schooled when home schooling wasn't so popular.
Home schooled parents share the unique perspective. They were home-schooled; now they have children of their own. Now they must decide what is best for their own kids: to home school or not to home school?
It's not an easy decision.
Carpenter-Peak, who has a degree in engineering, chose to home-school her two sons, Lhasa, 7, and Dakota, 11. When Dakota's old enough, she plans to enroll him in a public high school.
"I don't want public school to be foreign to them," Carpenter-Peak said.
Heather Burgos, 24, of Hagerstown, never went to a formal school until she enrolled at Hagerstown Community College. Burgos, a competitive kayaker, is finishing a degree in recreation management at Shepherd University.
She and her husband Juan, 30, don't know if they will to home-school their 15-month-old son, Juan Jr.
"I'm not against public school," said Juan Burgos, who attended public and private schools, but was never home schooled. "I think the best thing is you have options."
More acceptable alternative
Home schooling is not a new phenomenon, said Laura Derrick, president of the National Home Education Network, an advocacy group for home schooling parents and other organizations that promote home schooling. Derrick said the practice dates back centuries but started to fade after the mid-19th century, when the first wave of compulsory school attendance laws emerged.
In the 1960s, the social climate led to a resurgence of home schooling among progressive, young parents, Derrick said. Evangelical Christians and fundamentalists latched on to home schooling in the 1980s.
The spectrum has since broadened to include parents who are dissatisfied with schools' ability to educate their children, parents who fear for their children's safety, and parents who simply want to be closer to their kids.
According to the most recent national data, 1.1 million students - a little more than 2 percent of all students in the nation - were home schooled in 2003. In 1999, 1.7 percent of U.S. students were home schooled, said Chris Chapman, a statistician for the U.S. Department of Education, in a telephone interview. A report with more recent data will be released in October. Chapman would not reveal whether the proportion of home schoolers has changed since 2003.
Jack Klenk, director of the U.S. Department of Education's office of non-public education, said home-school enrollment growth was notable, compared with public and private school enrollments, and was fueled, in part, by changing social perceptions.
"The public has accepted this as an option." Klenk said. "This might not have been the case 20 years ago."
From home school to middle school
Carpenter-Peak, now 44 and living in Berkeley Springs, W.Va., said her parents decided to home school during the three-year trip because they didn't have a choice.
Her father decided to take the family on a sailing vacation, but the vacation grew longer and longer, until it was clear the family would not be back home any time soon, Carpenter-Peak said.
They drove from their San Diego home to Connecticut. They sailed to Nova Scotia, then across the Atlantic and cruised in the Azores islands, the Canary Islands and the Madeira Islands. They returned across the Atlantic again, to the Caribbean and the Venezuelan coast before ending up in Mississippi.
Carpenter-Peak's mother decided to home-school when they left Nova Scotia. She used lessons from the Calvert School, a Baltimore-based organization that provides curriculums for home-schoolers. Carpenter-Peak said she uses Calvert with her own kids.
After three years, Carpenter-Peak and her sister were back in public school system. Transitioning into seventh grade wasn't easy, Carpenter-Peak said.
"It was hideous," Carpenter-Peak said. "We hated it."
Carpenter-Peak said all those years abroad made them out of touch with American pop culture, making it hard for them to relate to their peers. But by the time she entered eighth grade, Carpenter-Peak said she had adjusted.
Her family embarked on another sailing venture during her high school years. She took the GED in 1980 and went on to attend the University of Maryland.
She said she had never heard the term "home school" used until recently, when her sister was considering whether to home school. Carpenter-Peak said that that also was the first time she had heard of a parent considering home schooling for a reason other than extensive travel.
She said that had it not been for her family's extensive travel, she and her sister would have likely attended public school. Now, she's a fan of public school and home school.
A viable option
Sharpsburg resident Sheila Chapelle, Burgos's mom, said she home- schooled because she thought it would enable her kids to be more creative. Burgos is the oldest of eight children, all home- schooled, Chapelle said.
Burgos recalled a time when she was a kid biking with her brother during the day.
"The police wanted to call our parents because they thought we were skipping school," Burgos said.
"There were fewer families home schooling when she was little," Chapelle said.
Burgos said she's learned to deal with stereotypes - that home- schooled kids are antisocial or being brainwashed by an ultra-conservavtive religious parent. Juan Burgos said that until he met his wife, he, too, had misconceptions about home schooling.
"When you think of home schooling, you think you're secluding the kid," Juan Burgos said.
Now, he considers home school as a viable option for his son.
Chapelle said she's open minded about her kids' education. She gives them the option of attending public school when they reach ninth grade.
"I think it's always important to teach our children to make good decisions for themselves, "Chapelle said. "If that means going to a formal school, we support that."
Considering home-schooling?
In order to home school in Maryland, parents must notify their local school system. Once they've notified the school system, parents have the option of choosing a state-approved home-schooling program or registering with their local school system, which will check into the child's progress twice a year.
To find out more:
• Call Washington County Public Schools, 301-766-2809, for a packet of home-schooling information.
• Go to the Web site of Home and School Connection, which sells home-school curriculum guides. The site also lists Christian and nonsectarian home school support groups at www.homeschoolconnection.com/supportgroups.html.
What the numbers say
Among all students in Washington County, home schooled students saw the largest growth during the decade between the 1997-98 and 2007-08 school years when compared with private and public school enrollments.
• Home-schoolers increased 94.1 percent, from 394 to 765.
• Private schoolers increased 17.2 percent, from 2,827 to 3,316.
• Public schoolers increased 7.6 percent, from 19,564 to 21,057.
• Home-schoolers make up 3 percent of the county's 25,138 students.
-Sources: Maryland State Department of Education and Washington County Public Schools

