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PandorasBox
Babes in Toy Land

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Baby-Friendly Sex Shop To Open In NYC
Strollers Welcome, Changing Station Available At Store In Quiet Neighborhood That Specializes In Adult Toys
Reporting
Cindy Hsu BROOKLYN (CBS) ― You would think a sex shop might not go over well in a neighborhood with lots of families and small children. But as CBS 2 HD found out, there's an adult store in Park Slope that's about to open where mothers and their young children are welcome.

When we think of x-rated shops, we think of graphic windows and the Village.

But along quiet Bergen Street in Park Slope, comes Babeland. You wouldn't even know what's sold here, unless you read the fine print.

There are lots of body products but adult toys are the biggest seller here. Claire Cavanah is the owner, and a mom who says she designed the place to be kid friendly.

"Strollers will be welcome in the store and we are putting a changing table in the bathroom in case the little one needs a diaper change while you're shopping," Cavanah said.

This neighborhood is kid central. Cavanah said she'll target the mothers with special seminars.

"We plan to hold workshops that discuss motherhood and sexuality and body image," Cavanah said.

Next door you'll find the maternity store called Bump. The owners are two mothers who met Cavanah years ago, at a baby yoga class.

They're thrilled to have her in the neighborhood, and say they're actually in the same line of work.

"Both our businesses are in the business of sex," Hannah MacDonald said. "We wouldn't have bumps without sex."

On the other side, you have Paul Zumoff who owns an organic restaurant that also sells an herbal formula to boost your libido.

"Conveniently we're right next door if you need us to help recharge your batteries and get balance so that you can get your groove on," Zumoff said.

So what do parents think?

"There's room for everybody, so I don't object to it," Corrine Rodriguez said.

"I have two little girls, 4 and 5, (and) I'm actually totally OK with it," Sue Gilad said. "I think this is a part of life."

"I actually think it's really fun and cool, now I don't have to go to the West Village," another mother said with a laugh.

When the store opens Thursday, it'll be the fifth Babeland nationwide.


...Um, I dunno - somehow I don't think I want my five year old as I am shopping for new items to add to my collection! blink.gif
PandorasBox
::ahem:: I guess I should also add that this is just an opinion/expression... NOT that I would actually have any of these type items... biggrin.gif
Dodge Man
QUOTE (PandorasBox @ Jun 6 2008, 09:08 AM) *
::ahem:: I guess I should also add that this is just an opinion/expression... NOT that I would actually have any of these type items... biggrin.gif


Now Come on PB, that's what keeps the marriage going isn't it????? Just kidding. I can't stand those type of shops and can't wait until they get the filth one downtown ripped out. For the life of me why would someone want to take their child in a place like that. IMO, that tells me this type of person is very self indulgent and has no regards to anyone but themselves. What a hog that person must be. Children don't need to see or be anywhere around that type of environment. What happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom much like Vegas.
Patton
Interesting. That sounded vaguely familiar.
PandorasBox
Oh? How is that? Seriously - I'm jus askin'? smile.gif
Patton
Not you.
PandorasBox
K... jus checkin'. biggrin.gif
Snoopy
I think the "kids" that need diaper changes would not be aware of what is in the shop. Might not be good for 8 year olds though! I think this is a different kinda shop than a sleeze joint with peep shows and stained walls. ph34r.gif
PandorasBox
Agreed... I don't think it's a shop where you drop a quarter in the window slides open... But have you been in the Locked Door? I wouldn't want to take my 4 or 5 year old in there with me either! blink.gif
Kid
Wow...Babeland does sound rather "Kid" friendly, just kidding of course, relax folks it Friday
Princess
QUOTE (Kid @ Jun 6 2008, 01:52 PM) *
Wow...Babeland does sound rather "Kid" friendly, just kidding of course, relax folks it Friday






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SmokeChaser
QUOTE (Kid @ Jun 6 2008, 01:52 PM) *
Wow...Babeland does sound rather "Kid" friendly, just kidding of course, relax folks it Friday


True, I heard it was all the latest buzzzzzzzz

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coma
QUOTE (PandorasBox @ Jun 6 2008, 09:00 AM) *
"I have two little girls, 4 and 5, (and) I'm actually totally OK with it," Sue Gilad said. "I think this is a part of life."

I think this says it all. It's not 1940 anymore. If you think sex is that taboo, just have someone cut your thing off or stick a plug in your you know what.
SmokeChaser
QUOTE (coma @ Jun 6 2008, 04:24 PM) *
If you think sex is that taboo, just have someone cut your thing off or stick a plug in your you know what.


OK, umm that takes kinky way too far for me. I'll pass. blink.gif
coma
LOL, my point is... live a little and stop caring about what other people are doing. smile.gif
communityhagerstown
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Patton said: Interesting. That sounded vaguely familiar. laugh.gif


2 different quotes, but I found both fun and in the spirit of Friday. Happy Friday on that note. I am easily amused. biggrin.gif laugh.gif

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Coma made funny and then said: my point is... live a little and stop caring about what other people are doing.
Heather
Y'all are either:

a) not familiar with the "sex shops" around here

or

2) feel guilty because you have been to the "sex shops" around here with your kids

The businesses I'm talking about don't hold classes, (that I know of - never asked wacko.gif ), but many adult stores have Disney up front and party in the back...hayyyy!

I thought it was weird too. But I think they, (the store owners), promote clean, ordinary atomspheres. They discourage pervs and post signs thusly. I don't agree with selling kids stuff there and I think it's really weird that they do, but I've never seen a kid there.

I kinna snort under my breath at the guys/gals that browse the up front Disney part though cos you know they're uncomfortable. Maybe the Disney part is for them and not really for parent's kids. biggrin.gif Let's ease into porn by putting Disney up front. laugh.gif
Udmas
QUOTE (Heather @ Jun 6 2008, 09:44 PM) *
Y'all are either:

a) not familiar with the "sex shops" around here

or

2) feel guilty because you have been to the "sex shops" around here with your kids

The businesses I'm talking about don't hold classes, (that I know of - never asked wacko.gif ), but many adult stores have Disney up front and party in the back...hayyyy!

I thought it was weird too. But after the first five trips I stopped browsing in the Disney section and now I just make a bee line for the back. laugh.gif But I think they, (the store owners), promote clean, ordinary atomspheres. They discourage pervs and post signs thusly. I don't agree with selling kids stuff there and I think it's really weird that they do, but I've never seen a kid there.

I kinna snort under my breath at the guys/gals that browse the up front Disney part though cos you know they're uncomfortable. Maybe the Disney part is for them and not really for parent's kids. biggrin.gif Let's ease into porn by putting Disney up front. laugh.gif


Finally, a post from someone that has some actual experience with sex shops.

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Heather
QUOTE (Udmas @ Jun 7 2008, 08:16 AM) *
Finally, a post from someone that has some actual experience with sex shops.

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Smartass biggrin.gif tongue.gif

Considering the amount of uptight opinions around here, I really don't see a lot of HM members ever stepping into an adult toy store.
Udmas
I'd bet the number is higher then you might think.
Heather
QUOTE (Udmas @ Jun 8 2008, 01:30 PM) *
I'd bet the number is higher then you might think.

I thought that was you I saw in the S&M section last week! You aren't fooling anyone with that fake beard, btw.
Udmas
Did you buy that whip you were looking at?

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SmokeChaser
QUOTE (Heather @ Jun 8 2008, 01:23 PM) *
QUOTE (Udmas @ Jun 7 2008, 08:16 AM) *
Finally, a post from someone that has some actual experience with sex shops.

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Smartass biggrin.gif tongue.gif

Considering the amount of uptight opinions around here, I really don't see a lot of HM members ever stepping into an adult toy store.


Yeah H, I think you would be surprised about who has been where. Some of people on here even sell items for a business called "Slumber Parties." And I don't recall anything Disney about the Locked Door.
PandorasBox
Some really interesting takes on this... I agree that a lot of people would be surprised at what others do behind closed doors. I know a lot of people sure shocked the hell outta me! Yeah - you gotta loosen up & live a little. I don't care what anyone thinks about me. Accept me for who I am or move on. But, I still am not going to subject my children to details that they don't need to know until they are older. I think there is a fine line between being frank and open and giving too much details... Sure my kids know about "sex"... Do they need to know ALL the details and extras that go along with it? I don't think so. No different IMO than teaching your girls that you need to wear undergarments but letting them shop for those undergarments at VS at the age of 13 & come home wearing thongs... blink.gif I hope my kids wait as long as possible to have a sex life, let alone finds ways to spice it up... biggrin.gif I don't understand why so many parents feel the need to allow children to grow up faster than what they already do on their own. Let them be kids & enjoy their uncomplicated life as long as possbile...
nshifler
QUOTE (SmokeChaser @ Jun 9 2008, 08:39 AM) *
QUOTE (Heather @ Jun 8 2008, 01:23 PM) *
QUOTE (Udmas @ Jun 7 2008, 08:16 AM) *
Finally, a post from someone that has some actual experience with sex shops.

laugh.gif

Smartass biggrin.gif tongue.gif

Considering the amount of uptight opinions around here, I really don't see a lot of HM members ever stepping into an adult toy store.


Yeah H, I think you would be surprised about who has been where. Some of people on here even sell items for a business called "Slumber Parties." And I don't recall anything Disney about the Locked Door.


I am a distributor for Slumber Parties which is an in-home adult party for women only. As a distributor I demonstrate romance enhancing products which are tastefully presented in your own home (just like Pampered Chef, Longaberger, etc…) my job is to educate and empower women to take control of their sexuality and help them to bring the romance and fun back into their relationships.
PandorasBox
QUOTE (nshifler @ Jun 9 2008, 01:10 PM) *
QUOTE (SmokeChaser @ Jun 9 2008, 08:39 AM) *
QUOTE (Heather @ Jun 8 2008, 01:23 PM) *
QUOTE (Udmas @ Jun 7 2008, 08:16 AM) *
Finally, a post from someone that has some actual experience with sex shops.

laugh.gif

Smartass biggrin.gif tongue.gif

Considering the amount of uptight opinions around here, I really don't see a lot of HM members ever stepping into an adult toy store.


Yeah H, I think you would be surprised about who has been where. Some of people on here even sell items for a business called "Slumber Parties." And I don't recall anything Disney about the Locked Door.


I am a distributor for Slumber Parties which is an in-home adult party for women only. As a distributor I demonstrate romance enhancing products which are tastefully presented in your own home (just like Pampered Chef, Longaberger, etc…) my job is to educate and empower women to take control of their sexuality and help them to bring the romance and fun back into their relationships.


Yes, and do you have many children attend your parties?
nshifler
Absolutely not - the parties are for women and must be 18 years and up
SMan
I went to one of those type of parties a few years back but it was for couples, not women only.
nshifler
I have had many requests for couples parties but Slumber Parties is no men or no children - its a fun night for just the women.
PandorasBox
I've been to both - women only & couples... Hilarious! We had a blast!
nshifler
You are right they are a blast and everyone laughs the whole time!!! It is a fun job - i just do it part time in addition to my full time job.
jelsey
Sorta like "Dildos for Dummies"?

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PandorasBox
QUOTE (jelsey @ Jun 9 2008, 02:15 PM) *
Sorta like "Dildos for Dummies"?

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LOVE IT!!!
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nshifler
Funny!!! I guess you are kind of right but there are a lot more products including lingerie, lotions, potions, games, adult toys and novelty items - every thing from meek and mild to a little bit wild. It’s something fun and different for women to do and everyone can have a laugh or learn something they maybe didn’t know before. It’s private, so you don’t have to worry about the locals seeing you go into the XXX store. I realize that is not your average job, but I would like to think that I am actually helping marriages by helping to keep their relationships healthy and spicy.
coma
If you ever need a place to host one of these slumber parties, let me know. Ladies only. Alcohol will be provided.
PandorasBox
QUOTE (coma @ Jun 9 2008, 02:55 PM) *
If you ever need a place to host one of these slumber parties, let me know. Ladies only. Alcohol will be provided.


rolleyes.gif Nice one, Coma... J/K
Snoopy
QUOTE (Heather @ Jun 6 2008, 09:44 PM) *
Y'all are either:

a) not familiar with the "sex shops" around here

or

2) feel guilty because you have been to the "sex shops" around here with your kids

The businesses I'm talking about don't hold classes, (that I know of - never asked wacko.gif ), but many adult stores have Disney up front and party in the back...hayyyy!

I thought it was weird too. But I think they, (the store owners), promote clean, ordinary atomspheres. They discourage pervs and post signs thusly. I don't agree with selling kids stuff there and I think it's really weird that they do, but I've never seen a kid there.

I kinna snort under my breath at the guys/gals that browse the up front Disney part though cos you know they're uncomfortable. Maybe the Disney part is for them and not really for parent's kids. biggrin.gif Let's ease into porn by putting Disney up front. laugh.gif

Disney? Seriously? Not at the one I was in... blink.gif
Heather
Oh my gosh I could tell y'all some funny stories, but Pandora's thread is so jacked already I'm afraid she'd hurt me with the whip I just bought. happy.gif

But yeah, Snoopy, I've been to adult stores that had commercialized kid stuff in the front...granted it wasn't set up like your average store. The cashier counter spanned both ends of the store and you had to do a zig zag aisle to get to the adult stuff in the back, in other words - the cashier was always right there to filter the age requirement, but damn, when you turn that corner, wowza.

I think the intent was to make it seem less shady and more "healthy/friendly-couples" saavy, but yeah it was a weird and stupid idea. I know the last time I was in The Locked Door in Htown, it didn't have kids stuff. The adult cutsey, candy stuff was in the front and no kids stuff anywhere. But when I went to the upstairs clothing part, there were little toddlers running around. That part just has wigs, shoes, boots and costumey stuff though...but still, me and Jen were shopping for some specific halloween piece and we bolted when we saw the kids. It's one thing to shop for sexy things at the mall and have kids oblivious and running around bras and nighties, but when you're in a specific shop not attached to the mall...no. In their defense though, it kind of felt like the kids were family of the person working there.
Dodge Man
QUOTE (Patton @ Jun 6 2008, 10:40 AM) *
Interesting. That sounded vaguely familiar.

Meant for me AAAAAAA Patton. If so Good glad your watching out for me. biggrin.gif
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